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5 Things Your High School Senior Needs To Hear From You

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April 11, 2016 by Lisa Joy Thompson 17 Comments

5 Things You Need to Tell Your High School Senior from FunHappyHome.com

In less than 2 months, my 2nd daughter is going to graduate from high school.  This year has been a year full of college applications, ACT tests, college visits and more! I’d be lying if I told you this was a stress-free time.  It doesn’t mater if your senior is ready to go to college, it’s still going to be a big adjustment…for you and for them! It’s a time of great change…with a lot of laughter and quite a few tears as well.  It can be stressful for both parents and their children.  The more prepared they are when they graduate from high school, the better their chances are of succeeding as they navigate college and work.

As a parent, you want to give your child the best information and support you can. While every child is different, there are some things that every college-bound senior should know.

Remember the Importance of More Than “Book-Learning”

College is about new experiences and not all of them take place in the classroom. In order to help your high school senior be as prepared for college as possible, do all you can to ensure they’re ready for life inside and outside of the classroom.

1. Remind them that their relationships will change, no matter who they’re with.

They won’t want to hear this and they probably won’t believe you, but it’s important to tell them anyway.  College is stressful enough without them wondering why their friendships and relationships seem different.

2. Repeat that they have your support – no matter what direction life takes.

When your child graduates from high school, they’ll want to stretch their wings and try making decisions on their own.  Some of these will be good decisions.  Some of them will be not-so-good decisions! Let them know that your love for them does not depend on their good choices.
3. Equip them with knowledge they need about money, alcohol, drugs, sex, and other serious matters.
4. Provide only an agreed-upon sum of money, and only when necessary.
5. Discuss the future with real world examples, so they’re focused on success.

There is so much to a college experience today, and it’ll be different for each person. Some of that is due to differences in personality, but some of it also depends on how far away from home the college is. If a student is living at home, his college experience will be far different than a student who is hundreds or even thousands of miles away from his parents.

The influence you have over your child throughout the senior year in high school will change when they go off to college. Understand that even the best parenting doesn’t always save a child from challenges. You can prepare your child for college, but then it’s up to them.

The Value of Education in Today’s World

Education is becoming more and more valuable with each passing year, but remember that education and college are not synonymous.  Technology is changing the way things are done.  People who have a strong work ethic and who make education (classes, personal development, etc) a priority are generally the ones who see the most success. It can be hard to get a high school senior to take the future seriously, but imparting good information is vital.

Your child’s first few years out of high school will most likely be a time of trial and error. Some people are ready for college right out of high school, and some aren’t. If your child isn’t ready and doesn’t perform well or decides to work for a few years to figure out what they want to do, don’t despair. They can always attend college at a later date and do just fine.

In short, don’t assume that your child will perform exactly the way you expect; all you can do is give the best information and support you have to offer. Keep in mind that your young adult is an individual and will have to find his or her own way. The life experienced in college and beyond is up to them!

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Comments

  1. Travel Blogger says

    May 13, 2016 at 12:43 am

    These are great tips. My little brother is graduating from Highschool this year and it’s so important they leave ready to handle the world of adulthood.

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  2. Stacie @ Divine Lifestyle says

    May 13, 2016 at 9:53 am

    These are great tips. Letting them know about changing relationships before the actual change can be an important cushion. It’s tough to go through those changes.

    Reply
  3. Kiwi says

    May 13, 2016 at 10:36 am

    This is good info that even my parents didnt tell me about. Yes college is a world of trial and error especially if they live on campus away from parents it is really prepping them for the real world and adulthood!

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  4. MELISASource says

    May 13, 2016 at 12:08 pm

    I always tell my kids that I will be there for them no matter what. They know their father and I are always in their corners.

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  5. Pam says

    May 13, 2016 at 12:48 pm

    These are all great things to tell your high school senior. My son just finished his first year of college and he still needs to hear many of these things.

    Reply
  6. Sarah Bailey says

    May 13, 2016 at 1:43 pm

    These sound like some great tips, leaving school is such a big thing in life as it is all you have known for so many years. x

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  7. Diana Elizabeth says

    May 13, 2016 at 2:39 pm

    Right on, these are great words of wisdom. What an exciting time to head off to college. I always kept my parents words close to me – once I skipped class and was on the phone to my dad and instead of getting mad he said, “You know, you paid for that class.” I never slipped class again!

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  8. Theresa says

    May 13, 2016 at 3:36 pm

    These tips will definitely come in handy. My daughter will be off to college in a year and we are trying our best to get her prepared to be on her own as much as possible.

    Reply
  9. Seattle Travel Blogger says

    May 14, 2016 at 8:19 am

    There is some good advice here.
    The transition to college deserves this kind of attention.

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  10. Brandy says

    May 14, 2016 at 8:43 am

    This is a great post, I can totally get how these are great things to say to your high school senior. My daughter will be at that status in about four years, so I will keep reading up on how to handle the high school years!

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  11. Jeanine says

    May 14, 2016 at 9:51 am

    Great tips! My oldest will be heading to high school soon so these will be great for me to remember, and share with him.

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  12. Beeb Ashcroft says

    May 14, 2016 at 10:08 am

    So many young people I know that are graduating and so much advice that I want to share. It’s important to have focus and make sure we get the important stuff in first. Thanks for the list!

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  13. Nicole Escat says

    May 14, 2016 at 12:26 pm

    These are very important things that our senior kid needs to hear from us. Focus is very important. I always say this to my kids.

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  14. Toni | BoulderLocavore.com says

    May 14, 2016 at 12:28 pm

    This is great advice. I have a high school Junior right now and it feels like a year of testing that will never end. So stressful for the kids.

    Reply
  15. Tess says

    May 14, 2016 at 11:49 pm

    This is something hat teens need. Actually most kids.

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  16. Ann Bacciaglia says

    May 15, 2016 at 6:57 pm

    It is important to talk to your graduates about the changes that happen after high school. It can be an overwhelming time for some kids.

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  17. Karlaroundtheworld | Karla says

    May 15, 2016 at 9:10 pm

    I have to say that the time between High School graduation and entering College is one of the few things that involve hasty decisions. The teen should be able to know that he’s ready for another 4-5 years of learning succession and why they’re doing it. This is actually a good read, I would recommend this one to a lot of people.

    Reply

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